woohit42 Junior Member Joined: Aug 24, 2017 Messages: 435 Likes Received: 399 Sep 13, 2019 #81 Your statement is inconsistent. First, I've heard Shelley Meyer speak about the abuse as told to her by Smith's wife. There's no way in hell that Urban didn't know even if it was from his wife. Secondly, a restraining order requires proof of abuse in a court of law in order to be issued. TrojanFireHorse12 likes this.